When students know that we care, they want to let us know what happens in their lives so that we can share in the celebration or mobilize the support we can provide. If we are the last to hear, it is time to figure out why.
The process of gaining respect can take time, and we may need to remind ourselves to be patient. However, we are not powerless. By giving respect, resisting what is not respectful, and embracing elements that define respect, we can gain the confidence, stature, and positive regard we seek.